Robert Burns Was Right

Hundreds of years ago, the Scottish poet Robert Burns, penned the famous lines:

Our family has our own translation: "Life happens when you have other things planned."

 Both core beliefs require effort, work, and a thoughtful approach. Foundational to those beliefs is that our placement in the world is not an accident. We are created for purpose and meaning, invited to participate in the larger world for our good and others' benefit.

I think life ought to work! Messy relationships, failure, sickness, extreme highs and lows all provide the fodder to create a great life. My foundational beliefs became challenged 18 years ago when I received the dreaded diagnosis of late-stage cancer. I asked myself, “What about my plans? What now? Is my usefulness done?” To navigate that challenge, I needed an army of support, and yes, Coaches, Counselors, Ministers, and friends all helped our family overcome.

And yes, Robert Burns was right—our plans often go astray or do not result in the fruition for which we hoped. The good news is that with the gentle nudging of friends and the careful coaching work of professionals, we can get back on track with new plans!